NOT TOO TIGHT. NOT FOR TOO LONG

                   I often ask my girlfriends who were in  relationships to describe how they feel while someone is holding their hands-- all of them say they feel secure and safe.I can not actually understand it until last friday. I have it experience myself.

                 
                   it was true that you will feel like warm and not alone, but eventually as our hands stayed linked I felt discomfort. maybe because it was too tight I can not breath anymore. maybe because it was for  too long i grew tired of it. or simply because I am not yet ready.